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    My Passing Thoughts

    Poems, reflections, and unfinished thoughts from the margins of Letters to My Daughter.

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    • Essay · 4 min

      A Letter to My Daughter — quotes I keep returning to

      Some sentences in this book were not written to be quoted. They were written to be survived. These are the ones readers keep sending back to me.

    • Essay · 5 min

      A Letter to My Daughter — the one I could not send

      There is a letter every mother writes and never sends. This is mine. It begins, as most of them do, with an apology I will not finish.

    • Essay · 5 min

      A letter for my daughter on becoming a woman

      No one will tell you when it happens. There is no ceremony, no certificate, no Tuesday afternoon when you wake up arrived. There is only weather.

    • Essay · 6 min

      Letters to my daughter — journal prompts for the unfinished letter

      If you have been meaning to write your daughter a letter and the page keeps refusing you, begin here. Twelve doorways. Step through whichever one is unlocked today.

    • Essay · 4 min

      Letters to My Daughter — about the book

      Readers keep asking what this book actually is. Here is the most honest answer I can give without standing in front of it.

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